The Art of Horse Whispering
Demystifying Natural Horsemanship
As we approach the close of 2024 and the first anniversary of Curious Equestrian, I've found myself reflecting on the conversations we've shared with leading voices in the equestrian world. One theme that consistently emerges is the fascinating intersection between what we call "horse whispering" and "natural horsemanship".
The Hollywood mystique surrounding "horse whisperers" – popularised by films and novels – has perhaps inadvertently created a barrier for many horse owners. It's painted a picture of an almost magical ability accessible only to a gifted few. Yet, through our conversations with trainers, behaviourists and experts over the past year, a different narrative has emerged: one that speaks to the attainable nature of these skills when approached with patience, dedication, and genuine curiosity.
I've observed how this mystification can deter passionate horse owners from exploring what is, at its core, a deeply practical and learnable approach to horsemanship. The distinction between "horse whispering" and natural horsemanship often seems to blur – perhaps because they share the same fundamental principles of understanding, respect, and clear communication.
Through the insights shared in our podcast episodes this year, we've discovered that this approach isn't about possessing mysterious powers but rather about developing keen observation skills, emotional intelligence, and a willingness to see horses as they truly are – not as we imagine them to be.
Understanding Horse Whispering
The term "horse whisperer" gained widespread recognition following Nicholas Evans' novel and the subsequent film starring Robert Redford.
The practice of horse whispering extends far beyond Hollywood portrayals. Horse whispering is about understanding horse psychology and developing communication based on trust and mutual respect.
"We can never be recognised as their leader because we are human, not horse," explains Melanie S Watson, founder of Instinctive Horse Training. While we might not be "part of the herd" in the literal sense, we can still earn trust and build a strong bond through natural horsemanship techniques.
The Science Behind the Whispers
Despite its mystical-sounding name, horse whispering is grounded in solid principles of equine behaviour. Rachel Draaisma, a horse trainer and behavioural consultant, provides insight into the subtle language of horses:
"Calming signals could be chewing, licking and chewing, showing hindquarter, showing flank. It could be head lowering, ear lowering. It may be sustained lowering. It may be turning the head away, turning the neck away. It might be looking away. So there are many signals."
Traditional horse training often relied on dominance, but horse whisperers take a different approach.
Equine relationship specialist Andrea Wady advocates for a more balanced partnership, stating, "I don't want to use violence and too much dominance." She emphasises that horses "mirror us to a certain degree" and reflect our own emotions and energy.
Equine Ethology: Unlocking the "Horseness" of the Horse
Equine ethology is the scientific study of horse behaviour in their natural environment. It provides invaluable insights into their innate instincts, social structures, and communication patterns. It helps us grasp the concept of "telos"—as coined by veterinary ethicist Professor Bernard Rollin—meaning the "horseness of a horse" or the essence of their being.
"Observing horses in their natural habitat reveals a more authentic representation of who they are". Explain Bonny Mealnd, "By studying their interactions within herds, we can better comprehend their complex communication systems, intricate social hierarchies, and the profound impact of social connections on their overall well-being."
Building Trust and Communication
Success with horses lies in establishing trust. Renowned horseman Warwick Schiller offers a profound perspective: "When people look at a horse, a lot of times, and they can't see the horse, you see your perception of the horse, and you see your hopes, your dreams... Sometimes, we don't see the horse."
Professional equestrian trainers who embrace these methods focus on:
Reading horses' body language with acute awareness
Developing clear non-verbal communication
Maintaining consistent positive reinforcement
Fostering mutual respect through patient interaction
As Elsa Sinclair astutely observes, "Horses actually want to do things with us. That's the big thing I'm trying to do: You don't have to coerce them into doing things. If you can go about it the right way, they want to do things with us." This profound insight challenges the common misconception that horses must be made to comply with human wishes, instead suggesting that willing partnership is not only possible but natural when approached correctly.
The Future of Natural Horsemanship
Any equestrian can embrace these techniques if they choose to. There's no mystery to horse whispering; we just need to be curious and challenge the status quo.